Rebekah's Surprise Proposal
Updated: Feb 19
As a photographer specializing in the representation of LGBTQ+ relationships and a gay woman myself, I find myself getting extra excited for sessions with members of our community as well. This session was just the same - the minute I received the inquiry, my heart jumped with excitement. Rebekah first emailed me in July inquiring about photography for her upcoming proposal plans for October. She had everything planned out - it was going to be the day of their anniversary, and they were going to be finishing the final chapter of a book they were working through called “8 Dates” by John and Julie Gottman. She was going to be set up in a classic picnic fashion with snacks and tequila and even a blanket. After the book they were to then start packing their stuff up, which is when Rebekah would propose.
As the day got closer, our correspondence got more exact. We both knew that there was only so much planning to do, and that the only thing left was excitement. When I arrive onsite, I was drawn to how picturesque the location was. Rebekah had laid out their blanket right on the edge of the St. Johns River, and had timed it perfectly with the early phases of sunset glowing in the background. The golden light was streaming in and amplified the romantic setting. Right on cue, as Rebekah started getting up, I moved in. As I snuck in closer, I saw Rebekah speaking quietly and slowing to Chasity as warmth emanated from one to the other. They were so locked into each other and as Rebekah got down on her knee, it was clear that Chasity's dream was coming true. People were clapping and I had moved in closer to them to capture the details but they never broke their eye contact, still whispering to each other in a moment of pure and utter love. I was so shaken by this powerful feeling. As a photographer, my job is to convey human emotion in an authentic and beautiful way. However, I had never felt so swept up in a moment with a couple like this before. I was crying right along Chasity!!
Love is beautiful, love is pure, and love is a gift. I walked away from the shoot feeling like I had learned something. It is easy to get discouraged with the day to day life, especially as a gay person. Love can be more complicated and the public's response can be hurtful. However - there was nothing negative about this love. Every moment was joyous and no one could be said otherwise. These are the feelings we harness and these are the emotions that keep us going. I will be forever grateful to Rebekah and Chasity for letting me into this gorgeous moment and changing my life for the better. I love my job and will never take for granted what an impact it can have on the world.